Tuesday, March 9, 2010
I was in a situation recently where I was being told by my manager that I needed to remove some carts from the building. I was clocked out and on my way home. I told him that it was not my responsibility, I was clocked out and headed home. He proceeded to tell me that he had told me earlier in the week that it was my job to remove the carts during my shift. He never told me this I would have remembered. I would not blatantly dismiss something I was told to do. We argued and I left in a huff. Now I knew that I was right but during our arguing he threatened me with the possibility of loosing my job. That worried me some and made me angrier. To make a long story short. I had to stand up to him and his threats, push back hard so to speak and not let myself be bowled over by fear and insecurities. I had to try to cause change. If I had just ignored the situation and done what he told me to do he would keep being a bossy jerk. We, humans are equal, no one is better than anyone else. Yes we all make different choices which take us down different paths but remove the layers of crap and we are all the same heading in the same direction. We all want to be happy! I believe that we all want to ultimately get along. I want to go to my job, do my work and go home a peaceful and content being. However I will not tolerate being taken advantage of, nor abused. I will stand up for my rights and I have always made sure I know what my rights are! I will stand and be heard!! I am woman hear me roar!! Ha, Ha, Ha. (Helen Reddy) Yeh! Together we can all be strong. We can all win. We can all be successful. We live on this globe together. Our basic human rights should be met. Food, clothing, shelter and health should be provided to all living beings on the planet. All for one and one for all. So I guess on some level I at least for now will not come close to filling the Dali Llamas shoes but heh I can aspire. Love to you all. See you later.